An Ode to the Joys of Parenthood

Monday, February 23, 2009

Bang Bang!


The ladybugs in our yard are mating like crazy this week.

My cousing Ernie got married this weekend. Yeah, we got a text message on Wednesday asking if we could come up on Saturday morning for his wedding. On friday he finalized details and married Tanya on Saturday morning at 10 am. I think that may be the quickest wedding planning I've ever experienced.

And I got new hair, thanks to my sister.

Sunday, February 15, 2009

I haven't blogged since Disneyland!

And so much stuff has happened! Isn't that the way it always goes? Since then, 1) Camille has started a preschool class at the La Mesa Rec Center that she absolutely LOVES 2) we have officially gotten rid of our car 3) My sister's house closed escrow (yay!) 4) I got certified to teach Group Cycling classes at the gym 5) Valentines Day has come and gone 6) well, I always forget something...


As stated above, Camille LOVES her preschool class and I am so happy about that! I was worried, and especially apprehensive since she asked to be pulled out of the last preschool she was going to. Also, she is supposed to start Kindergarten in the fall so I was worried that she would just hate preschool so much that I wouldn't know what to do about kindergarten. Now, I really think that homeschooling is the way to go IF YOU CAN KEEP YOUR SANITY and be a great teacher for your children. I am not sure that I have it in me to do that. This whole kindergarten thing has been a real struggle for me and I am still not sure what the answer will be or what the future will hold for that. Currently, I have applications in for the Innovations Academy (part time school, great idea for me), Liberty First Charter (also half-day kindergarten, which is a biggie for me), San Diego Language Academy (Spanish language immersion program) and Hardy Elementary (just a normal school, close to my house). I am not sure which, if any, of these schools she'll get into. I initially also had an application in to the San Diego Cooperative Charter, but since selling our car and thinking about the reality of going to a school so far away we've decided it's not such a hot idea. We'd be better off to stay somewhere close and walkable, or at the very least bikeable.

So, yeah, kindergarten. Fun times. We'll just have to see what happens in the fall!

Tuesday, February 03, 2009

we went to Disneyland on Friday



My kids are so spoiled. This is the 3rd time since September. We also have SeaWorld passes, Zoo passes, Childrens Museum passes, (thanks, grandparents, for all of these by the way!)the beach a stone's throw away... How lucky are kids growing up in Southern California with all of this stuff within an easy drive? They have no idea. Sometimes I think we should just not ever go so it could be more of a treat than "the norm." Here are some pictures.



My lovely #2 with her hand in the Swiss Family Robinson tree (now Tarzan - WTF?!)


# 1 and her daddy, my beautiful husband

My kids with my mom



My sister and her baby-daddy in the honeycomb from Winnie the Pooh




Our car hit 100,000 on the way home!

Wednesday, January 28, 2009

We went to Trolley Barn park today






At C.'s request. I am savoring driving places for the last few days. I measured the mileage on the way home - about a 5 mile bike ride! Yikes =) I know it's do-able, but I am not looking forward to that pain just to take my girls to some of their more favorite, farther-away parks. I talked to insurance lady today and we are not renewing our auto insurance for the month of Feb. It will expire about half way through the month, and then we are done! Anyone want a nice, cozy, family-style CR-V?

Here are some flicks from the park picnic we had today! Thanks, friends, for meeting up with us. It was really nice to see you there and catch up.

E. enjoying some lunch

the # 1 reason why C. loves this park

Tuesday, January 20, 2009

New blogsperiment

Just wanted to point out that I have started a new collaborative blog that is linked over on the left under "tread lightly". We kind of have a tentative blog title but are still experimenting with that and colors/layout. Pop over and let us know what you think!

Dance Party

We took the kids to their first high school dance this past Friday - what a blast! J., as most of you know, is a teacher at a small charter school here in San Diego. They had their winter semi-formal on Friday and we decided to go and chaperone. As it turns out, they told him that the kids could come because some younger siblings would be there and some staff were bringing their kids as well. Did I mention that this school was a bit unconventional? Anyhow, they had the time of their lives dancing it up! Camille even made me find the "Cha Cha Cha" song online the next day so that she could practice her steps.

Here is a video, I'm sorry it's pretty dark. It's what I've got and it will forever remind me of the fun that they had on that night. None of the pictures that I took quite capture the essence!


On another note, I officially sent in my first query letter today - yikes! I have been throwing around the idea of trying to write more for a while and decided that there was no better time to try than now. I usually have Tuesdays completely free of children so my ambition for that day is to send out one query or unsolicited article (publication accepting) per week. I actually wrote this query last week but had been sitting with it so that I could re-read it and I finally stuck it in the mail today. That leaves me the rest of today to write another...

Wednesday, January 14, 2009

here, chickie, chickie, chickie...




Crazy Birthday Month



So, j. celebrated his 34th this last Saturday and we spent it with some good friends at none other than a Roller Derby bout. Yeah, you read right! Once Jeremy found out that the next bout of the San Diego Derby Dolls was on his birthday, he would have it no other way. Needless to say, it was loads of fun and a night we won't be likely to forget for a long time. Did I mention that Chizu paid for face painting?


Pre-derby pizza @ Zia's Pizzaria


@ the Derby


With a "Doll"


With Chizu and their painted faces

Friday, January 09, 2009

So sad, so long.



I was just skimming some news articles and came across this sad piece on Friendship Park/ Borderfield State Park. Friendship Park embodied the essence of San Diego at its roots. It symbolized so many things at once - oppression, love, strife, connection. It is truly a tragedy that this powerful place will no longer be something that can be experienced by anyone. San Diego now is a little emptier.


"The Border Patrol will replace the plaza with a dirt road sandwiched between fences 130 feet apart and off-limits to the public, said spokesman Tom Younghusband."


RIP
A cross-border family sharing a picnic on either side of the fence
Another picnic shot
Estelle standing on our side



The obelisk mentioned in the article
From the obelisk looking westward
Camille playing in the sand on the US side
Looking up into Mexico

Them taking photos of us

Tuesday, January 06, 2009

Wooo-hooo!


3 nights in a row of cleaning up with the girls before bed! We are on a role. I've even been doing all of the dishes in my sink before I call it a night. Now, how many days in a row do they say before it becomes habit? Hopefully not too many more =)
Today was uneventful but nice. The girls and I lazed around home, rode their bikes around the street for a little bit and hung out with the chickies in the back yard. They took a long bath, nap, had some dinner and then we went for a nice family walk around the 'hood, probably about 3 miles all together. We had to stop by the grocery store to pick up some pectin and sugar because Heather and I will be conquering marmalade in the next couple of days. Anyone want a jar?
Here are some pictures from Camille's party and her actual birthday-day.
Birthday Princess


Estelle taking a crack at the pinata

Wet Children with Candy

Pinata Frenzy in the Drizzle

Monday, January 05, 2009

one more

NYR #5 - clean the girls room every night before bedtime! never too late to start a good habit, right? we'll see if this one sticks.

Sunday, January 04, 2009

New Years Resolutions

NYR #1 - get rid of car

NYR #2 - write more

NYR #3 - if (1) and (2), create a blog (or co-op a blog) about being car-less (or car-sharing)(or reducing your carbon footprint in general) in San Diego and post in it on a regular basis.

NYR #4 - exercise more regularly! This should come as a natural consequence of (1).


Here is a cute picture from around Christmas of the girls decorating the tree that I didn't post earlier because I am lame about blogging.

Saturday, January 03, 2009

chickies, coops and partying it up!`

Happy New Year, all! Hope that it's been great for you thus far, as we are only a couple of days into it... It's been a busy but awesome start for us this year. We always get slammed with everything at once- everything is kind of a blur from Thanksgiving through January 10th. We get 3 days of celebration during the 23rd, 24th and 25th of December between all of our family members, followed by New Years Eve a week later and New Years Day, which also happens to be my mom's birthday. Camille's birthday is right behind her on the 2nd, which we celebrated today, the 3rd. One more week exactly until Jeremy's big 34th on the 10th! Then we get to breath for a little while =)

We started off our New Year spending it up in Redlands to celebrate with my mom for her big day. Upon waking on New Years Day we decided to throw the kids into the car and drive up to Forest Falls to see if there was possibly any snow left from a couple of weeks prior. We didn't want to get our hopes up, though, so we were prepared just to hike the falls if the snow didn't pan out - boy, we had no idea what we were in for! As we approached the valley we were stunned to come from sunny Redlands 15 minutes prior to houses absolutely covered with feet of snow. It always amazes me, just how much snow dumps at that place and how it STICKS for so long. Needless to say, the girls were not disappointed. We made our way into a little parking lot and tromped around for a while and then decided to go for a short hike down to the creek in the snow, and what an adventure that was! The day was beautiful, sunny, snow-filled and topped off with a fun party back at my parents house for my mom's and Camille's birthdays.

Today we had a birthday bonanza for Camille with friends and family here in San Diego. It was a breakfast and it was cold and drizzly but oh so much fun. We have this small house and we somehow had 50ish guests slammed into this tiny space and it all worked out! All I have to say is that I'm glad it didn't rain TOO hard, because I don't think we could have all fit inside at the same time. All of our guests were total troopers and didn't mind too much that they had to wear raincoats and get a little wet. It always makes me a little sad, though, that our house is so small and we can't just have a giant bash and invite everyone we know. I always hate having to whittle down the guest list and with everyone having kids and spouses - wow! You don't even invite that many people and somehow the turnout is just huge! Maybe one of these years we will have a kids-only party and make all of the parents leave - then we could have all of their friends come at the same time! Okay, maybe I would ask a couple of you parents to stay...

One thing that I have been meaning to post about is our chickens! We are now proud parents of four hens (at least I hope they are all hens at this point). Yup, that's right. We have a coop and everything. Super cute, super fun and I can't wait to have my own home-grown EGGS! Thank you, Sarah and BJ for all of your time and energy and brains to help us design and build this coop, may your eggs be abundant! Here are some pictures of the little ladies:

At a couple of weeks old

And with Sylvia, the Australian Hen Herder